You decide to buy a new car. You calculate your budget and choose accordingly. It finally arrives, all shiny and new. There is joy. You start driving it, pleased with your choice. You hope it will last you for a good few years…
You hit a pot-hole and something crunches…you know how bad you feel when that happens? Something’s not right. You get it checked out. Simple. Cause and effect. Claim on the insurance (it’s what you pay for) and it’s working properly again. A bit annoying, but ultimately fixable/replaceable. And while you’re waiting for it to be fixed you can walk, take a bus, go by train, get a lift. What a disappointment. Anyway, you’ll buy another car in a few years’ time, put it in for part exchange, and it will be someone else’s problem by then.
You can buy a new car when yours is damaged, or get it fixed, and someone else might pay the bill.
You decide to start/ extend your family. You plan carefully. You check your finances. You wait. The baby finally arrives, all shiny and new. There is joy. You start the relationship. You watch as the baby grows, seeing which side of the family your new arrival takes after. Something’s not right. You get it checked out. There is no cause and effect. Or if there is, it is not fixable. Or if it is fixable in theory, it will be years (and millions of pounds worth of research and testing and endless lobbying and public funding) before your child, by then a young (or even old) adult might be fixed.
You can’t fix your child when he/she is disabled - you can’t take him/her back and say “I want a new one- this doesn’t work properly” however much we parents of disabled children may sometimes feel we want to (and then feel guilty about thinking it). You can’t trade in the disability, which you hate, because you can’t separate it from the child, whom you love.
The early years of the “love/hate” emotional see-saw, like constant craters in the long road of life, can be evened out a little, to make our journey a little smoother. To keep us functioning as parents and carers, our children can access play schemes, and have short breaks where they can have fun, and be looked after by caring professionals. The help and support of charities such as Disability Challengers, (a Hampshire Local Authority favourite) which provides play and leisure opportunities to children and young adults with disabilities, has had a positive impact on the continuing coping ability of the recipient families for many years.
But no more. Hampshire, like the rest of the country, is facing cuts in all services. 12% cuts for Hampshire roads, but 67% cuts for Hampshire’s disabled Children and Young people.
Cutting the Budgets - Unintended consequences?
Leaving the potholes unfilled means traffic has to slow down, meaning fewer accidents and lives saved, and less families facing financial ruin or potential life changing injuries.
Cars fall apart after miles of journeys which will inevitably include pot-holes. Cars wear out and break down, and can be replaced easily. Families with disabled children also wear out, and breakdown, and fall apart (70% more likely than families with non-disabled children). Taking away support for the most vulnerable in our society means families fall apart, and the bill for the repairs to families when this happens will be significantly greater than the budget saved.
Cars are consumables. They wear out and are repaired or replaced. We all pick up our own car bills. If you are really lucky, you get a company car. Families, particularly those of disabled children, fall apart. They can sometimes be repaired, but cannot easily be replaced. And the subsequent public cost is enormous.
12% Budget cut for Hampshire Roads.
67% Budget cut for Hampshire Disabled Children’s Short-breaks services.
We all share the ubiquitous pot-holes in the road. If we drive carefully we can see them ahead and take avoiding action, smoothing our ride.
Some of us have additional unavoidable hazards on our journeys, on routes not of our choosing, and leaving us more likely than most people to breakdown.
Society exists, and taxes are collected to help and support the vulnerable in our society - isn’t that how it is supposed to work?
Our families of children and young people with disabilities can rarely find the energy to fight our own corner in the many battles we face, but our voices still need to be heard.
If you still believe that Society exists, and that it exists for the support and benefit of all the vulnerable within it, then share our battle to save our precious Short-Breaks for Hampshire's Disabled Children and Young people.
Please add your voice to our petition, which can be found at-
http://chn.ge/1qNs6MA
